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Happy Tuesday, Sault Ste. Marie! For today's Tarot cards, I'm responding to an anonymous seeker who asks,
I'm seeing a man, "John," who says he loves me and promises that he's going to leave his wife. Should I stay with him and wait for him to start a new life with me?
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Hello, anonymous seeker; what a situation you find yourself in. First of all, I'm required by law to encourage you to consider the legal ramifications of your decisions. That's all I'll say about that. Second, what makes you think "John" is going to treat you any differently than he treats "Jane?" This is a serious question.
The reason I ask about John's future behavior is because his past behavior is an important consideration. You appear in this reading as seeking a stable, mature relationship. And certainly, a mature lover who knows the ins and outs of marriage can be that person for you. But are you sure you're not putting a face on this relationship that isn't really there?
The relationship you share with John is far more attractive to you than it is to him. When I consider John's part in this reading, he's an old dog who won't learn new tricks. He does things his way, and makes decisions that suit him. He's learned a way of being that works for him in his own life, and I sincerely doubt he's willing to cede authority over his lifestyle and his preferences for the sake of a relationship.
True enough, there's two sides to a relationship - or in this case, three sides - and perhaps John's wife is a terrible shrew and practically drove him into your arms. Or maybe John's a dog and can't keep his nose to himself. My answer to you is to tread carefully, and follow the words of the sage who said, "Trust none of what you hear and only half of what you see."
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