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Happy hump-day, Sault Ste. Marie! Yes, it's the middle of the week... again... but keep your head up and I promise you'll make it to Friday. For some light reading, today's online psychic answer is in response to an Anonymous Ostrich who asks,
I really like this girl, Jane. She's my perfect ideal of a girl. Will we be together?
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The classic dilemma - will boy meet girl? As in most things, Anonymous Ostrich, that depends on you. A prediction is one thing, but if you bung it up by not showing interest in Jane and taking the steps necessary to build a friendship with her, then you might as well discard this prediction and consider stamp-collecting.
If I sound abrupt, it's because I want you to understand that, in the context of this reading, you appear as somebody who already believes that this relationship will never succeed. If so, the greatest obstacle in your path is you.
As far as Jane goes, she's a confident, passionate girl and would expect the same level of confidence and passion in any of her partners. Are you willing and able to provide that?
But to properly answer the question asked me - will the two of you be together? - the answer is yes: you will share a platonic relationship. In other words, you'll be in the so-called "friend zone." Are you disappointed by this prediction? If so, then you're not considering the other half of this equation: Jane herself. Does she want a relationship with you? Or with anybody at all?
If Jane is your heart's desire, then you should beware making her your "everything," because - in effect - that reduces her to the level of a romantic fetish. I think the most important questions to answer are actually, "Why have I fixated my attention on this one person, and why do I think it won't work?" When you have an answer to those questions, you'll have answer to this one.
As far as Jane goes, she's a confident, passionate girl and would expect the same level of confidence and passion in any of her partners. Are you willing and able to provide that?
But to properly answer the question asked me - will the two of you be together? - the answer is yes: you will share a platonic relationship. In other words, you'll be in the so-called "friend zone." Are you disappointed by this prediction? If so, then you're not considering the other half of this equation: Jane herself. Does she want a relationship with you? Or with anybody at all?
If Jane is your heart's desire, then you should beware making her your "everything," because - in effect - that reduces her to the level of a romantic fetish. I think the most important questions to answer are actually, "Why have I fixated my attention on this one person, and why do I think it won't work?" When you have an answer to those questions, you'll have answer to this one.
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