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Happy Tuesday, Sault Ste. Marie! For today's Tarot cards, I'm responding to an anonymous seeker who asks,
I had a really intense year-long fling with this girl in 2001, and I really thought it was going somewhere, but after a year it turned out that we didn't have a future together and we split up. We're both seeing other people, but 14 years later, I find myself still attracted to her. What's happening here?
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What a story. Suffice it to say, the heart wants what the heart wants regardless of what the brain has to say about it. Let's talk about "Jane." She represents in this reading the ultimate and unattainable freedom that you yourself feel that you lack. She goes where she likes, does what she pleases, and is accountable none except herself. What a captivating person, eh? Regardless of what you hoped to achieve with Jane, it's plain to me in these cards that she never really intended to make plans with you the way you wanted to make plans with her.
There's no real opposition between the two of you in this reading, only the message that the two of you didn't desire the same things and there was no reconciliation for that core difference. It's important for you to recognize how this has impacted your emotions. Relative to relationships, although you're still drawn to the kind of person she represented in that time and that place 14 years ago, you feel burned that the emotion and intensity you invested in the union wasn't rewarded. This has resulted in a cautious attitude. This combination of pining for something that never was and reluctance to let your emotions become so entangled with anyone else in the same way is what's happening here. Acknowledge this reality and move on.
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