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Happy Tuesday, Sault Ste. Marie! For today's Tarot cards, I'm responding to an anonymous seeker who asks,
"John" and I broke up a few months ago. I really love him and want us to be together, but I don't know if it's worth trying to keep us together. What do you see?
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Wow, tough question. I'll do my best to find some insight for you, dear Seeker, but as frequently quoted in the Pirates of the Caribbean, "this is more like guidelines than rules." The short answer is that you should let go of this relationship. The long answer is, well, longer. Let me explain.
Your 10 of Pentacles shows you not in a position of personal control. Your desires are in charge of your decisions, and while that's not automatically a bad thing, your desires in this situation are creating dependency and emotional addiction. You need time apart from John to get yourself back on steady ground.
John, too, needs some time to settle. He's got a lot of anger related to the feeling that he wasted his time, and the frustration is too near the surface for him to think about putting this relationship back together. This is compounded by his active efforts to avoid putting this relationship back together. You can't force him to do this when he's coming from such an opposite position.
Finally, the union that the two of you share needs to be completely dissolved. The way it exists right now, it only furthers the intense negative feelings between the two of you. In other words, you can't fix this relationship, but instead you need to let it die and after some time apart see if the fundamental compatibilities that brought you together are strong enough to do it again.
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