Online Psychic Answer: 14 October, Libra 2015

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Happy Wednesday, Sault Ste. Marie! For today's online psychic answer, I'm responding to an anonymous seeker who asks,

My relationship has fallen apart. How did it come to this?

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Hello, dear seeker; I'm sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. Nobody likes to hear bad news, but in this case it's my job to ask you: Are you sure you don't have any idea how your relationship came to this? Feel free to tell me I'm wrong - I promise it won't hurt my feelings - but I think both you and your partner wanted a change, and of the two of you, your partner the most.

Your card as the Ace of Cups tells me that you wanted to make a change. Perhaps you wanted to keep the relationship together but exist in a different way, but essentially you wanted something other than what you currently had - and that's one contribution to the end of the relationship.

I want you to understand that I think it's not unreasonable to want more or better from your partner, but I also want you to understand that your partner has the position of greater influence in this reading. Your partner's Justice card tells me that he was deeply preoccupied with himself and finding his own sense of rhythm and balance. The fact that he wanted to do that without you isn't your fault - it says more about him than it does about you.

As for the relationship itself and how the two of you got along, I see that problems were swept under the rug and there was a lot of ignoring obvious signs and warnings. As the relationship waned, did you get the feeling that one or the both of you were pretending that things were okay when they really weren't?

The deeper answer here is that both of you - in your way - grew tired of the existing relationship. You wanted to change your relationship with "John" into something else more satisfying, but John wanted to move on from the relationship entirely. You both saw the same problem, but each of you saw different solutions. There are deeper issues that I don't have the time to answer in this reading, but suffice it to say that the core issue was communication.