Free Tarot: 1 October, Libra 2015

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Happy Thursday, Sault Ste. Marie! For today's free Tarot, I'm responding to an anonymous seeker who asks,

What are the biggest obstacles in my love life?

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Dear Seeker, I don't see any particular challenges in your love life. If anything, the only challenge is that you take yourself too serious and are trying too hard to get the things you want. I say that you're taking yourself too seriously because in my interpretation of the cards the 6 of Cups (your central character) is an insufferably stern position which places physical intimacy (hint: sex) and deep, soulful connections at the #1 priority.

Your desires in the 8 of Diamonds also put a strong emphasis on physical pleasures and your sense of wealth or achievement via a relationship, which - again - doesn't really acknowledge the other side's interests or desires. There's nothing wrong in wanting sex and deep connection with your partner, but you need to slow down and acknowledge that not everybody is wanting to jump in so deep so fast!

The best thing you can do right now is to acknowledge your needs - the Knight of Cups - and carefully evaluate the most pleasurable and rewarding options not just for yourself but also for your partner and focus on what you contribute to the relationship. When you give more than you take, your kindness will be noticed and then your partner will be eager to reciprocate on your own desires.